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Kristian Saldana's avatar

This is such a heartfelt article. The first paragraph in this article got me choked up. I recently lost my dad in December and I would catch myself apologizing to others for getting emotional. Your response to your client was exactly what was needed - to just be present in the moment.

Patrick LaRose's avatar

First, I am terribly sorry for your loss.

Presence is so powerful, and it can truly shape the coaching experience.

For me, this is the cornerstone of what I do.

I am glad this writing landed with you, and thank you for sharing your vulnerability and experience.

Lourdes's avatar

Every time I come to this space I feel so understood and safe. this is exactly how I have been feeling for the past 5 years. .. I have had so many losses , yet I feel ashamed and inappropriate for feeling emotional at times, so I keep hiding them.

Thank you for making this space a place where i can be myself and feel normal.

Your clients are so blessed to have you! i’m

so very proud of you Patrick!

Patrick LaRose's avatar

I felt these words deeply, Lourdes!

Thank you. I feel honored to have you here.

JP Bristol's avatar

Presence is the rarest gift we can offer someone in a noisy world. Thank you for this reminder and for the deep work you are doing.

Patrick LaRose's avatar

Thank you for saying this. I appreciate your comment deeply.

Katerina Schmitt's avatar

This is such a great read Patrick. The words that stood out for me are "release the thoughts, feelings, and things that no longer serve you" what a great anchor ⚓

Patrick LaRose's avatar

Thank you, Katerina … this was a tough one to write. It required vulnerability.

We hear the gurus say be yourself, be vulnerable. Well, this is that piece.

Thank you for your kind words, and I am glad the writing spoke to you.

Katerina Schmitt's avatar

Being vulnerable is tough, really tough! Congratulations on being able to reach deep.